Do you ever find it hard just to sit, and do nothing? If you don’t – you are a rare breed of human that barley exists today. Because most people struggle with doing nothing. Just sitting. No phones, no books, no screens. I sure do. Especially in the last few years with iphones – thoseContinue reading “When you chose to simply be.”
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Does Anyone Belong Here?
I was at a show the other day where a member of the audience asked the author Neil Gaiman “How do you deal with not belonging here?”. To which he answered (much more eloquently and elaborately): None of us do. I did wonder for a bit what he meant and how I felt aboutContinue reading “Does Anyone Belong Here?”
Oh To Love Thyself
Elton John may have said “Sorry seems to be the hardest word” but to be honest I think there are harder words. To say and to mean “I truly love myself” is much, much harder. And for a lot of people that say it, I don’t think they really mean it (same as Elton John’sContinue reading “Oh To Love Thyself”
Judging Without Justice
There is a reason why sentences like “No one can judge me but God” exist. Because the opposite is the case – everyone is judging everyone. It almost seems like human nature; Magazines are filled with it, office gossip in the coffee room is fueled by it and family sure seems to be great proponentsContinue reading “Judging Without Justice”
Catching Your Own Feelings
You know those days when you wake up with a certain feeling and you don’t know why. You slept well, you have a easy day ahead of you but something just feels off. Or the other way around, you wake up great but by 10am although nothing has happened, your mood has shifted and somethingContinue reading “Catching Your Own Feelings”
Why You Forget The Most Important Thing – Yourself
In a society, in a family, there is little room for an individual. It goes against the basic sense of what a society is, a group of people deciding to come together. Focusing on yourself is not encouraged, rather looking out for others – if a mother, you must nurture the family. If you areContinue reading “Why You Forget The Most Important Thing – Yourself”
Solitude is Bliss
Space around me where my soul can breathe I’ve got body that my mind can leave Nothing else matters, I don’t care what I miss Company’s okay, solitude is bliss There’s a party in my head And no one is invited Tame Impala – Solitude is Bliss What a great song. If you haven’t heardContinue reading “Solitude is Bliss”
If You Fake It, You Won’t Make IT
Only once moving to NY did I hear the saying “Fake it till you make it”. It did not resonate with me. Rather yet, it confused me. And since then I keep getting it as advise and I can’t seem to agree with it. The thing that bothers me most is the word “fake”. UsuallyContinue reading “If You Fake It, You Won’t Make IT”
Growing Pains
I used to not be able to do any kind of public speaking. Literally, even just introducing yourself to a group of people in a circle was horrifying enough. I like being invisible and don’t see the benefits of people noticing me. I don’t like the spot light and I enjoy any kind of light.Continue reading “Growing Pains”
De-Finding Yourself
What people think finding yourself is: Knowing your key strengths and weaknesses, by being able to list adjectives next to your name and nailing every job interviews because you know exactly who you are and what you want out of life What I define it as: Being at peace with yourself, knowing your personalityContinue reading “De-Finding Yourself”
